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Woman shares tests every man must pass to date her – including paying the bill

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Woman shares tests every man must pass to date her – including paying the bill

A lady has caused an online discussion after revealing that she runs tests on guys she meets to check if they can “support and protect” her.

Gabby revealed her severe dating guidelines on her TikTok account, @respectfullygabby, where she stated that she purposely makes subtle hints to potential partners to check whether they pass the test.

She revealed in a video that has been seen over 150,000 times that her first aim is to see whether the man offers to pay for their first date.

“Let’s end this back and forth, 50/50 bullsh**t, first date; he ought to be paying 100%,” she remarked.

She stated that if they do not pay the entire sum, she will flee in the opposite way.

Gabby’s dates will also be put to the test to determine if they care about her’safety.’

She described a time when she took an Uber home after drinking with a guy at a bar in Miami, Florida.

She explained that the man’s Uber came first, and instead of departing, he offered to remain with her until hers arrived, which Gabby refused.

“If you don’t care about my safety and making sure I get into my Uber securely, you’re done,” she stated.

“This man failed my protection test, and he never heard from me again.

“Men, you need to be walking her to her car, to her Uber, to wherever to make sure she gets home safely.”

The third test involves Gabby saying she’s ‘cold’ to see if her date will lend his coat to keep her warm.

“I wanna see if you will give me the shirt off your back, and if you don’t, you’re dead to me,” she said.

Since being posted, the video has racked up more than 20,000 likes and 800 comments, many from people who agreed with her rules and said they were “common sense.”

“The females that get it, GET IT,” one individual stated.

“If a guy doesn’t make sure I get home safely after our date, I won’t go out with him again, no matter how fantastic the night was,” commented another.

A third person added: “He must pay for each date!! I’ve never paid a dime in my life.”