Travis Barker’s ex-wife Shanna Moakler wrote an emotive yet enigmatic statement about love and hatred as the Blink-182 frontman prepares for his wedding to Kourtney Kardashian in Italy.

The newlyweds are set to marry again in a larger ceremony in Portofino, which will be attended by nearly every member of the Kardashian-Jenner family.

Just before the wedding, Barker’s ex-wife posted a photo of herself with a strange statement on Instagram.

penned a cryptic post as its caption.

“I have no energy for hate. I either love you, with you well or hope you heal,” she wrote.

Meanwhile, the new bride was accompanied by her children Mason, Penelope and Reign at a pre-wedding family dinner.

The Blink-182 drummer’s kids Landon and Alabama were also present on the occasion.

“They had to legally get married first ahead of their big Italian wedding, which is happening very soon,” a source told PEOPLE. “All the details are set and the whole family, including all the kids, are very excited.”