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After 10 months of marital relations, the wife is shocked to discover that her husband is a woman

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After 10 months of marital relations, the wife is shocked to discover that her husband is a woman

Despite the fact that they frequently “had sex,” an Indonesian woman is in shock after realising that her husband of 10 months is actually a woman.

The 22-year-old woman, who goes by NA, has filed legal claims against her estranged husband for the deception.

“I remain terrified. According to a story in the regional publication Tribun News, the dumped bride was quoted as stating, “I’m shaking when I walk out.

The website claims that NA initially met her husband, also known as Ahnaf Arrafif, on the dating app Tantan last year.

The two quickly became friends after Arrafif allegedly claimed to be a doctor with medical school in New York.

After Arrafif visited NA’s birthplace of Jambi, they finally met in person in May 2021. A short while later, Arrafif popped the question, and the two were married in July.

NA acknowledged having had sex with her husband while they were married, adding she thought they had had penetrating sex.

She did, however, acknowledge that if things became heated, she was instructed “not to look directly at Arrafif’s genitals” and that her “eyes were covered with a rag.”

Additionally, NA said that Arrafif would only become naked when the lights were off, resulting in intercourse being performed “in a condition of blackout,” according to Suara.com.

Prior to the marriage, NA’s mother is said to have been charmed by Arrafif, but she quickly grew wary when it became clear he didn’t actually have a job.

After moving in with NA and her mother, Arrafif immediately started pleading for money. Following those months, NA’s meddling mother grew more and more certain that her “son-in-law” was a con artist. She also began to question whether Arrafif was a male and made an effort to acquire identification papers.

She finally confronted Arrafif in April and told him to get naked. At that time, Arrafif is alleged to have acknowledged that she was truly Erayani Arrafif, a woman.

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Arrafif is seen with NA in a photo published by media in Indonesia. The case has generated widespread attention in the region.

The con artist acknowledged to the police that they used their fingers to deceive NA into believing they were having penetrating sex.

It’s uncertain at this moment if Arrafif will go to jail if found guilty of the scam. No court date has been made public yet.