• Emma Heming Willis is an ambassador for The Women’s Alzheimer’s Movement.
• “When you over-care for someone, you end up under-caring for yourself,” she says.

Emma Willis, who is married to Bruce Willis, initially shared these insightful comments with The Bump on May 19. She’s now adding to her mantra with a few additional thoughts.

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Emma said, “When you put everyone’s needs above your own, no one wins,” added, “I don’t do this perfectly but I really am trying so I can be the best I can be for the people I love and adore.”

After Bruce was diagnosed with aphasia, the model, who has two kids with the actor, Mabel, 10, and Evelyn, 8, has been candid about the challenges of being a caretaker. Aphasia is a language problem that affects one’s ability to understand, talk, read, and write, according to the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association.

She said last month that caring for her entire family “had taken a toll on my mental health and overall health.”
she told The Bump, “I put my family’s needs above my own,” added, “which I found does not make me any kind of hero.”

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Emma, on the other hand, has refocused her approach, explaining that remaining busy allows her to “disconnect.”

She shared, “I don’t mother myself perfectly but I know that I have some basic baseline needs that are a must, like first and foremost, exercise.”